The sex is incredible and they are addicted to it. In fact, it’s so powerful that they’ve probably lost control of themselves and are now battling against someone daily that they are utterly infatuated with and can’t shed themselves of. This is the power of a woman who is really good in bed.
As a girl, being amazing in the sack gives you the x-factor that will leave any lucky fella you date at your mercy. It’s totally true, girls who are incredible in the bedroom get what they want, so if you know you could make some improvements, go for it and witness the results.
There’s really no excuse for lazy, passionless, lackluster sex. Just because you’re the girl and most probably the guy is the one who is making all of the moves doesn’t mean it’s fine to just lay back and let him do his thing. Oh no.
Whatever you do, don’t be that girl. If you are, you better have a super charming personality to make up for underwhelming sexual behavior.
You might be thinking, what exactly is he referring to that is so amazing? I’m already really good in bed. Are you, though? Or do you just think that you are because you’ve never considered the possibility that he could be talking to his friends about how he loves hanging out with you but the sex is mediocre?
How he feels about the sex you have together depends almost solely on his past experiences. If he’s been with a high number of girls, he’ll be harder to impress than a guy who dated the same girl for years and years before he met you. Unless of course, she was the type of mind-blowing sexual partner that he was hopelessly addicted to.
Passion vs Technique
When the fire of attraction burns really strong, sex is always good, but if you combine that with well-executed techniques, you’ll be UNSTOPPABLE. If you can blow his mind, I mean really blow him away with the sex, you’ve got him for pretty much as long as you want and he’ll go out of his mind for you.
We don’t need to go into how men have simple desires when it comes to romance that primarily consists of sexual gratification. Yes, some guys do care about personality far more than appearance, but let’s face it, guys are obsessed with sex and that’s never going to change.
Many guys allow themselves to be completely controlled by it. A beautiful girl who checks all of the boxes in the bedroom is nearly impossible to let go of. Once the guy has it in his head that you’re virtually irreplaceable because of the things you do, he’ll be desperate to keep you.
How to make your sex more enjoyable for HIM
Now that you’ve heard about how powerful you can potentially be by driving your man wild under the covers, you probably want to know what it is you have to do to become the queen of the bedroom. Here are some solid pointers.
Establishing the X-factor
Some people are just born with it. Some people are just super sexy without even trying and not just because of their looks, there’s something about them that makes them very desirable. That’s pretty rare, though.
It would be better to focus your efforts on the way you behave in the bedroom, including your attitude, rather than trying to carry that indescribable sexiness with you all day long. Switching up your entire everyday attitude would probably seem weird to your partner anyway, not to mention it would be totally lame to suddenly try and put up a front all day long.
You can switch on sex goddess mode when the bedroom door shuts though and your man will totally be into it. If for some reason he starts asking why you’re behaving differently, you can just let him know that it’s completely for him by saying something about how he deserves it or however you want to reassure him that it’s for his sake. If you don’t have to then don’t mention why you’re spicing it up. Surprises are always nice.
