Being in a relationship with someone is a commitment. Once you accept being his girlfriend, there may be a possibility that you’re going to get married. At least, this is how I see it.
I’ve noticed that infidelity is a very common issue. Throughout the time that I’ve been married, there have been things that I have learned along the way.
Today, I want to share a story that happened to someone very close to me while I was in college, and perhaps this could help you to overcome temptation.
Let’s call him Franc
When I was completing my undergraduate degree, I saw many things happen within the university walls. For instance, there were girls, and boys too, who would cheat on their partners.
In the beginning of my second semester as a junior, I became friends with a girl by the name of Olivia. Even though she was beautiful, love was something that she hadn’t yet found.
In her quest to find love, she became involved with Franc, who was one of the best-looking guys at the school. As the relationship grew, Olivia became emotionally attached to her new boyfriend.
Sadly, she wasn’t allowed to share this unofficial title with anyone, since they were still just friends, but with benefits.
As time passed, their intimate relationship became something that you would only read in 50 Shades. Olivia knew that she wanted something serious, but Franc didn’t. This is when she tried to stop the intimate relationship, and eventually found someone else whom we will call John.
As John and Olivia talked, she was too embarrassed to share that she was way too intimate with a guy who wasn’t even her boyfriend. The relationship grew, and Olivia started having really strong feelings for John; the best part is that she received the same in return.
However, things didn’t go as expected, especially in a university where everyone knew each other.
Would Olivia fight temptation?
Franc had dated multiple girls from the university, but he was still craving the one who sparked so much passion within him, Olivia. Through his friends, he made Olivia aware that if she didn’t sleep with him again, John would find out.
At that moment, my friend felt very confused, and she didn’t share this with me until after she had fallen for Franc again.
Over a period of several months, Franc and Olivia had amazing sex, but it just didn’t feel right with her. Why you may ask? Because at this point she was in love with John.
Honestly, I understood where she came from, when she explained to me how she didn’t know what to do.
On one hand, Olivia was afraid to share the truth about her wild nights, because she was afraid that John would think that she was promiscuous and not wife material.
As time passed, John found out and ended things with Olivia. The reason behind his choice very simple: she should’ve been honest with him from the very beginning. Sadly, Olivia didn’t think this way, and deep down she missed sleeping with Franc.
What she learned after everything
